when you were young you never knew how to walk
until your parents taught you to, they held your hands let you do couple of
steps right and then let go of your hands by that you start making few steps
right and wrong .. .... "stand and fall stand and fall stand and fall
" ....... and now we know how to walk. Just like that life has its ups and
downs and everybody experience successes and failure. Generally successes and
failure can occur in different areas in life like successes in your job getting
the pay rise that you want or maybe in your educational life as getting
accepted in the collage that you want or graduating from it, all of these
examples in our daily life where we can succeed or fail. We all want to succeed
and we try our best to achieve our dreams and goals and turn them into reality
but sometimes we may encounter failure and then life will not be as pink as we
thought it will be. We all fear failure that's why we try to avoid it as much
as we can, because failure can make us feel passive and helpless and lead us to
believe that we'll never succeed no matter what we do or try. Failure is such a negative thing that it would be
strange to suggest that it can be a good thing ! but hey! countless
success stories are replete with mistakes and obstacles. Thomas Edison failed
over 6,000 times before perfecting the first electrical light bulb. Michael
Jordan was cut from his high school basketball team and missed over 9,000 shots
in his career. A failure that results from well-designed and well-intention experimentation
can be worthy of praise, and regardless of whether failure offers any real
value, it’s a common occurrence in our uncertain environment and a natural part
of human existence. . Creating a purposeful life requires messing up and
venturing into the unknown. While we all want success, it’s not guaranteed.
That’s why the ability to recover from setback and move forward is essential.
And this starts with embracing, processing, and even benefiting from failure. I
am not encouraging you to fail but i am just trying to let you see the good
thing in failure and how failure can be your best teacher and how can you
develop and improve after it occurred.
Failure is supposed to be a
great teacher, but not so many are able to acquire the knowledge this
"great teacher" The problem is failure might be a great teacher,
but it is also a cryptic one. Figuring out its lessons is no easy task,
especially when we're still nursing a bruised ego and swimming in frustration,
disappointment, and demoralization, not to mention the occasional
embarrassment, resentment, and hopelessness. It was Thomas Edison who said that
he hadn't failed in his hundreds of attempts to create the light bulb. he had just found hundreds of ways that
it didn't work. This is
the mentality of geniuses and successful people. Failure to get the results you
wanted is not a negative thing; it is simply an opportunity to try a different
method. It is also the opportunity to start again. Simply an opportunity to
learn.
